PIA MELLODY
I am so saddened to hear of the passing of renowned trauma and codependence expert, Pia Mellody. She remains deeply imbedded in my heart as one of the people who most influenced me both professionally and personally. I had the great honor of working with Pia, being trained by her in her PIT training, and being guided by her during one very dark time in my life. Her spirit will live on forever and she will forever remain in my heart. I feel blessed to have been touched by her wisdom, authenticity, courage, love, and fierce commitment to our field. Farewell, dear mentor, friend and loved one.
The Meadows LinkedIn Page has a beautiful message of condolence, reproduced below.
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Pia Mellody
Pia Mellody Tribute
Pia’s contributions to Meadows Behavioral Healthcare are both foundational and lasting. As the architect of the Model of Developmental Immaturity, a framework for understanding childhood wounds and their lasting impact, she offered the world a clear, compassionate, and deeply human understanding of the origins of emotional and relational struggles. Her model — rooted in the principles of truth, love, and connection — remains the cornerstone of all treatment across Meadows Behavioral Healthcare and continues to guide the growth and recovery of those affected by trauma, addiction, codependence, and mental health disorders.
Pia’s career with The Meadows began as Director of Nursing, where her keen insight into the deeper patterns behind all forms of emotional suffering led to the creation of a framework that revolutionized the way we understand developmental trauma. She had a rare ability to take profound truths and make them accessible — turning complex concepts into powerful tools for healing. For many she was a beacon: equal parts innovator, truth-teller, and fierce advocate for reconnection and repair.
For several decades, Pia served as a Senior Fellow at Meadows Behavioral Healthcare, mentoring generations of therapists and clinicians, and offering hope and transformation to tens of thousands of patients and families. Her teachings on Love Addiction and Love Avoidance, codependency, and relational dynamics are now woven into the fabric of modern therapeutic practice. Her books, trainings, and workshops have reached practitioners and healing professionals across the globe — extending her influence far beyond our campuses.
Pia lived the work she taught. Her model emerged not only from clinical insight, but also from her own healing journey. That authenticity, coupled with her unwavering commitment to truth and love, made her an irreplaceable presence in our community and an icon in the larger world of behavioral health.
As we mourn Pia’s passing, we also celebrate a legacy that will live on in every therapist she trained, every patient she touched, and every life changed through her work. Meadows Behavioral Healthcare stands today as a living testament to her vision and her unrelenting belief in the power of healing.
We honor her spirit. We carry her work forward. And we remain eternally grateful for the immeasurable impact she had — and will continue to have — on our hearts, our practice, and the world.